Does your partner abuse drugs and/or alcohol?
Is your partner jealous of the time you spend with friends and family?
Do you only do what your partner wants to do?
Are you blamed when something goes wrong?
Are you constantly put down and/or called names?
Do you fear that you’re doing something wrong all of the time?
Are you made to feel responsible for your partner’s behavior?
Does your partner get angry if you disagree with him/her?
Do you feel that you have to ask permission to do things?
Are you not allowed to spend money or buy things for yourself?
Are you punched, slapped, hit, shoved, kicked, choked or hurt in other ways?
Do you think that your partner would hurt you?
Are you forced to have sex after you’ve said “no”?
Do you live in fear?
Does your partner follow or “check-up” on you?
If you answered “yes” to any of these questions you may be in a controlling and/or abusive relationship. Our 24-Hour Helpline is available to speak to you about concerns you may have.